Full Plate, Now It’s Time to Eat

I used to catch myself complaining about how much I had on my plate—too many responsibilities, too much stress, not enough time. Whenever someone asked how I was doing, I'd rattle off a laundry list of things that were “weighing me down.” I’d paint myself as the victim of my own ambitions as if the goals I set were somehow unfair to me. But then, something clicked.

I realized that if my goal is to eat, I can’t complain about the plate being full.

It’s a simple concept, but it hit me like a ton of bricks. Every single thing on my plate was something I asked for. I wanted the challenges, the responsibilities, the opportunities. I set those goals, and now they’re here, staring me in the face, daring me to rise to the occasion. And here I was, complaining? It didn’t add up.

Let’s get one thing straight: if you’re serious about winning at life, you have no business complaining about being busy. Busy is a blessing. Busy means you’re in the game, not sitting on the sidelines. Every ounce of stress, every sleepless night, every moment of pressure is a sign that you’re moving in the right direction.

The truth is, success isn’t handed out to people who want an easy life. It’s reserved for those who are willing to embrace the grind, and who understand that a full plate is part of the deal. When you set out to achieve something significant—whether it’s building a career, acing your studies, or pushing yourself in personal development—you’re signing up for a heavy load. Complaining about it is not just a waste of time; it’s a betrayal of your ambitions.

Sure, there’s a burden that comes with success. It’s not easy, and it means carrying a lot more than the average person. But here’s the kicker: you chose this path. You chose to strive for more, to push your limits, to take on the challenges that others shy away from. Complaints have no place here. They’re the enemy of progress.

Look, I get it. It’s human nature to feel overwhelmed when life throws a lot at you. But that’s when you need to remind yourself why your plate is so full. It’s full because you’re reaching for something greater. It’s full because you’re not content with mediocrity. It’s full because you’re on the path to becoming who you’ve always wanted to be.

Every time you feel like complaining, stop. Take that energy and channel it into action. Your time is too valuable to waste on whining about the very things you once prayed for. Tackle what’s on your plate with the same intensity that got you here in the first place. Remember, success isn’t just about what you achieve; it’s about how you handle the pressure along the way.

So, what’s it going to be? Are you going to keep complaining, or are you going to step up and own the life you chose? The challenges you face aren’t burdens; they’re stepping stones. Every task, every responsibility, and every moment of stress is a part of the journey toward the success you’ve been working for.

If you want to eat, you can’t whine about the weight of the plate. You have to dig in, put in the work, and finish what you started. The path to greatness isn’t paved with excuses and complaints; it’s built on grit, determination, and the refusal to settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Next time you catch yourself about to complain, remember this: you asked for it. Now it’s time to eat.